dimendaruff
Mar 8 2006, 02:19 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:00 PM) |
| QUOTE | | as a revengeful tactic? |
Yep....and I know better. I won't pretend to not know the obvious...Something has his full attention...enough to not think to call me for anything and I resent it. But I told him when he came here and took me to the Superbowl (because the weeks before that...no call  ) if he has a woman and in love then that is who should be holding his loot, not me. I be damned if I keep your nest egg safe for you and the next hoe. With a calm expression...he said o.k....that isn't the deal...the no call situation came from our phone issues  and what lines he want to communicate on (bullsh**) so...smart ass gives me a phone and guess what?...you now it....Tell me this bastard ain't trying to pull the shit on me...like I'm stupid (I try not to be)....So is he super inconsiderate? Using me? work is stressfull and theres no time to call and make sure your loot is o.k? I do have some nerve looking for his calls when I have someone (my someone broke me and this idiot up  )...o.k thats not funny....and also I have not been intimate with mr. inconsiderate in over 10 years. The problem is you ask a favor of me...no problem, but I can't get a call. |
hey u know him...so u know how he would react...i wouldnt fuck with the 6 figures...it aint like a couple of g's..i'd spend that real quick..u tryin 2 mess w/major money...just be careful girl! please...
RoyaleWithCheese
Mar 8 2006, 02:19 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:13 PM) |
| I did decide to just shut-up about the calls and take what I can but I don't like to be lied to. |
I'm confused. He can have women calling him all times of the day but if he tells you nothing is going and you don't believe him, it's a problem???
HoneyBee
Mar 8 2006, 02:19 PM
C/s thats not a good or safe situation to be in!
Be careful for real...

I dk how else to say it!!
Woman are receiving just as much time as the dealer in the 2000's...be careful!
Monah Lisa
Mar 8 2006, 02:22 PM
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RoyaleWithCheese
Mar 8 2006, 02:25 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:22 PM) |
| QUOTE | | you take the money, do a little short-term investing, stop answering the phone when dude calls. give it 90 days to see if he completley flips out and if no, put it in an IRA. make him invest in you. ta-da! (how'd i do Bill, i been taking notes. ) |
Oh my don't we think alike....I have purchased a 5k CD at my bank. They were having a 5% / 4 month cd sale. I have been trying to make the most of this crap....My christmas gift financed my son's education account and I was able to write that 5k off on my taxes Its like wanting to pinch someone really bad...you know..cause pain and get their attention but its nothing you can't handle and I thought If I had started this in a thread no one would respond |
You playing with gasoline panties on lady.
MsBrg722
Mar 8 2006, 02:41 PM
I'm not condoning any of this behavior cuz I would never do it...BUT I will share some info.
Wachovia has a serious Liquid CD rate of (if I remember correctly) 3.75% for 6 months (you ain't gonna beat that for a liquid CD). Only term is that IF you decide to withdraw early...you gotta open an wachovia account to draw the money into. The account can be a free checking...and you don't have to keep the money there. Absolutely no penalties for early withdrawal...
Some of ya'll NMN with large tax returns might want to think about it too. I think the min was only like $1,000.
Alfredo_fedicini
Mar 8 2006, 02:43 PM
IS YOUR PICTURE in the "Post your Pic" Thread?...Who is giving you 6 figures to hold and no ass in 10 yrs?..You are just suppose to "hold" the money not "spend" that ish...You mad that he not calling you?..Is he your MAN?..Does he want to be your MAN?
This does not make any sense?..
HoneyBee
Mar 8 2006, 02:45 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:22 PM) |
| QUOTE | | you take the money, do a little short-term investing, stop answering the phone when dude calls. give it 90 days to see if he completley flips out and if no, put it in an IRA. make him invest in you. ta-da! (how'd i do Bill, i been taking notes. ) |
Oh my don't we think alike....I have purchased a 5k CD at my bank. They were having a 5% / 4 month cd sale. I have been trying to make the most of this crap....My christmas gift financed my son's education account and I was able to write that 5k off on my taxes Its like wanting to pinch someone really bad...you know..cause pain and get their attention but its nothing you can't handle and I thought If I had started this in a thread no one would respond |
Just STOP answering his calls for one or two days... guaranteed HE WILL CALL YOU BACK BC YOU HAVE HIS MONEY...TRUST!!
No disrespect 2cents but you sound like this man is holding your OXYGEN PLUG

your a grown ass woman...watch TV, exercise, take a dance class, smoke, or go out on the town to keep busy!
*You never ever, ever, ever, want to come across as a needy woman to a man...ever* in a Ms NY Momma tone of voice from Flava of love
That is all.
BKLYNScribe
Mar 8 2006, 02:59 PM
| QUOTE (HoneyBee @ Mar 8 2006, 02:45 PM) |
you sound like this man is holding your OXYGEN PLUG your a grown ass woman...watch TV, exercise, take a dance class, smoke, or go out on the town to keep busy! *You never ever, ever, ever, want to come across as a needy woman to a man...ever* in a Ms NY Momma tone of voice from Flava of love
That is all. |
so young. so wise. *sigh* i wish i had half your knowledge at your age... oh, to be young (er) again.
acevac
Mar 8 2006, 03:11 PM
| QUOTE (Alfredo_fedicini @ Mar 8 2006, 02:43 PM) |
IS YOUR PICTURE in the "Post your Pic" Thread?...Who is giving you 6 figures to hold and no ass in 10 yrs?..You are just suppose to "hold" the money not "spend" that ish...You mad that he not calling you?..Is he your MAN?..Does he want to be your MAN?
This does not make any sense?.. |
Monah Lisa
Mar 8 2006, 03:20 PM
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acevac
Mar 8 2006, 03:22 PM
a pic would have been much easier
Fredo i see u!
dimendaruff
Mar 8 2006, 03:23 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 03:20 PM) |
I'm not planning to put myself in harms way by doing something stupid, I was just having a stupid thought or 2 |
cool!..nothing wrong with having crazy thoughts..we all have em...but as u said u have a child, and im certain u wouldnt do anything 2 jeopardize something happening 2 him and/or u...
Alfredo_fedicini
Mar 8 2006, 03:36 PM
| QUOTE (acevac @ Mar 8 2006, 04:22 PM) |
a pic would have been much easier
Fredo i see u! |

..Just following the Blueprint ACE..lol..I'm saying tho we need a visual behind that story!.
2 Cents-- I see what you are saying..YOU CAUGHT UP IN THE RAPTURE!..But just remember he is not your MAN yet..so play you position hold that money like told and stay quiet till he call you back..WOW How old are you 2 cent..cause it looks like you going through some real PIMP ish right about now..Sorry to say but looks like you the Bottom *Hush your mouth alfredo* for that man
GHETT--OUT of that trap sista!
Monah Lisa
Mar 8 2006, 03:47 PM
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RoyaleWithCheese
Mar 8 2006, 03:50 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 03:47 PM) |
| QUOTE | | GHETT--OUT of that trap sista! |
Done deal...I have accepted the obvious and moved on, my secuirty detail (when complete) will have a due bill thats all. He has shown me that either A- he has become an inconsiderate asshole that I couldn't tolerate anyway or B-Someone has him rapped so tight he wouldn't even risk calling me or a host of some other shit I no longer have time to figure out. I should have just ask for excuses to give on why things won't add up right You guys are truly theraputic and I appreciate your comments. |
Good deal.
Give him back his dough because you don't Mr. Po knocking on the door because ignorance of the law does not excuse you and if he ain't get a nice large tax return and he didn't cash out his 401K, how is he, and more importantly, you gonna explain where it came from???
HoneyBee
Mar 8 2006, 03:59 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 02:59 PM) |
| QUOTE (HoneyBee @ Mar 8 2006, 02:45 PM) | you sound like this man is holding your OXYGEN PLUG your a grown ass woman...watch TV, exercise, take a dance class, smoke, or go out on the town to keep busy! *You never ever, ever, ever, want to come across as a needy woman to a man...ever* in a Ms NY Momma tone of voice from Flava of love
That is all. |
so young. so wise. *sigh* i wish i had half your knowledge at your age... oh, to be young (er) again.
|
Thanks

I just dont want too see her hurt or pining behind him 5 yrs down the road...
Sweet G
Mar 8 2006, 04:38 PM
IT'S NOT OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok...I just came back from my SECOND interview for the job i mentioned last week, when I needed your prayers. {Thanks everybody who did} I had the invu with HR and the Director of Sales.
Prior to that, they asked me to put a presentation together by a certain deadline which I did, and they liked.
NOW....there's another interview to present my idea to the CEO.
Are these people trying to kill me? I feel good about it so far but dyam that got me working HARD for this!!!
dimendaruff
Mar 8 2006, 04:39 PM
| QUOTE (Sweet G @ Mar 8 2006, 04:38 PM) |
IT'S NOT OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok...I just came back from my SECOND interview for the job i mentioned last week, when I needed your prayers. {Thanks everybody who did} I had the invu with HR and the Director of Sales.
Prior to that, they asked me to put a presentation together by a certain deadline which I did, and they liked.
NOW....there's another interview to present my idea to the CEO.
Are these people trying to kill me? I feel good about it so far but dyam that got me working HARD for this!!! |
if they werent interested in u they wouldnt go thru so much...good luck! im feeling like u got this one in the bag...
BKLYNScribe
Mar 8 2006, 04:44 PM
my head is f*cked up. it's a good, NO GRRRREAT feeling, but it has really 180'd my ass. i am a whole different person. my unemotional ass is now crying at airports, unable to go to sleep without late night calls, e-mailing all damn day, running for the phone when it rings. what the hell has happened to me?!
yo, this man is talking about forevers and futures and building lives. like .... OMG! WHAT?!
forreal, i know it's the right thing, but i. am. scared. like terrified of the monumnetal intensity of it all.
clippersnw
Mar 8 2006, 04:49 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 04:44 PM) |
my head is f*cked up. it's a good, NO GRRRREAT feeling, but it has really 180'd my ass. i am a whole different person. my unemotional ass is now crying at airports, unable to go to sleep without late night calls, e-mailing all damn day, running for the phone when it rings. what the hell has happened to me?!
yo, this man is talking about forevers and futures and building lives. like .... OMG! WHAT?!
forreal, i know it's the right thing, but i. am. scared. like terrified of the monumnetal intensity of it all. |
awwwwwww
That's beautiful!!!!
RoyaleWithCheese
Mar 8 2006, 04:51 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 04:44 PM) |
my head is f*cked up. it's a good, NO GRRRREAT feeling, but it has really 180'd my ass. i am a whole different person. my unemotional ass is now crying at airports, unable to go to sleep without late night calls, e-mailing all damn day, running for the phone when it rings. what the hell has happened to me?!
yo, this man is talking about forevers and futures and building lives. like .... OMG! WHAT?!
forreal, i know it's the right thing, but i. am. scared. like terrified of the monumnetal intensity of it all. |
Please........shut up and enjoy the moment.
dimendaruff
Mar 8 2006, 04:51 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 04:44 PM) |
my head is f*cked up. it's a good, NO GRRRREAT feeling, but it has really 180'd my ass. i am a whole different person. my unemotional ass is now crying at airports, unable to go to sleep without late night calls, e-mailing all damn day, running for the phone when it rings. what the hell has happened to me?!
yo, this man is talking about forevers and futures and building lives. like .... OMG! WHAT?!
forreal, i know it's the right thing, but i. am. scared. like terrified of the monumnetal intensity of it all. |
girl...thats good!!
very beautiful....can u see urself spending the rest of ur life with him?
MsBrg722
Mar 8 2006, 04:54 PM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 8 2006, 04:51 PM) |
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 04:44 PM) | my head is f*cked up. it's a good, NO GRRRREAT feeling, but it has really 180'd my ass. i am a whole different person. my unemotional ass is now crying at airports, unable to go to sleep without late night calls, e-mailing all damn day, running for the phone when it rings. what the hell has happened to me?!
yo, this man is talking about forevers and futures and building lives. like .... OMG! WHAT?!
forreal, i know it's the right thing, but i. am. scared. like terrified of the monumnetal intensity of it all. |
Please........shut up and enjoy the moment.  |
For real...
Hate is an ugly thing...

I'm happy for your luv sick ass tho...
BKLYNScribe
Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Mar 8 2006, 04:51 PM) |
girl...thats good!! very beautiful....can u see urself spending the rest of ur life with him? |

at the replies. thank you.
yes, DIME! 100% yes. and that's what scares me. it's crazy. just crazy.
dimendaruff
Mar 8 2006, 05:04 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM) |
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Mar 8 2006, 04:51 PM) | girl...thats good!! very beautiful....can u see urself spending the rest of ur life with him? |
 at the replies. thank you. yes, DIME! 100% yes. and that's what scares me. like the rest of the world and everything in it pales in comparison to "US" there is nothing i would not do to keep this feeling forever!!!! things that were so important to me, just don't matter when he's around. and he is the same way. it's crazy. just crazy. i can't believe this is happening. finally. |
girl, enjoy it...and pray that it lasts 4ever!! true love doesnt happen often...
RoyaleWithCheese
Mar 8 2006, 05:08 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM) |
| there is nothing i would not do to keep this feeling forever |
Here are some secrets to keeping him and yourself happy
1. Give him the goods whenever he requests it.
2. Leave him alone during any sporting events.
3. Keep food in his stomach.
4. When he asks how your day went, keep the reply under 60 seconds.
babygirl
Mar 8 2006, 05:15 PM
Quote os the day:
Education is what you get when you read the fine print.
Experience is what you get when you don't.
Lyric of the day:
Mentally unstable like Snoop and Fat Joe on a see-saw.
EDIT: Slave...

...
babygirl
Mar 8 2006, 05:26 PM
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 11:26 AM) |
I want to ask a question, but not start a thread so I'll try and ask here... Ladies, (gents welcome)...If a guy you're REALLY close with does something that is flat out inconsiderate (for the 2nd time) even though you have said this really bothers you...and he has left you with 6 figures of his....would you go out and make yourself feel better about it? and Ladies you know how we do that.... I am not like that but I hate an inconsiderate asshole .....my problem is just like the thread about the girl with the guy who leaves and she doesn't hear from him.. Any advice?.....If its to foggy I can elaborate |
Didn't read all the replies so this may be a repeat, but...
I wouldn't spend the money, but i'd call him and give him a couple of days to come get it.
#1 He's playing you. He knows your a good person and can trust you, but doesn't want to be with you and is taking advantage of you.
#2 Where did the money come from? If and when anything happens you don't want to get caught up with the money. I'm assuming it's not from work, cause if so it would be in the bank. it'll be a shame going to jail for some dude period... and he ain't even your man.
#3 Karma. It always comes back.
deka
Mar 8 2006, 05:33 PM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 8 2006, 05:08 PM) |
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM) | | there is nothing i would not do to keep this feeling forever |
Here are some secrets to keeping him and yourself happy
1. Give him the goods whenever he requests it.
2. Leave him alone during any sporting events.
3. Keep food in his stomach.
4. When he asks how your day went, keep the reply under 60 seconds. |
yo RWC number four is not going to happen sun

but all the other joints is really easy for a woman to do.
Sweet G
Mar 8 2006, 05:33 PM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Mar 8 2006, 04:39 PM) |
| QUOTE (Sweet G @ Mar 8 2006, 04:38 PM) | IT'S NOT OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok...I just came back from my SECOND interview for the job i mentioned last week, when I needed your prayers. {Thanks everybody who did} I had the invu with HR and the Director of Sales.
Prior to that, they asked me to put a presentation together by a certain deadline which I did, and they liked.
NOW....there's another interview to present my idea to the CEO.
Are these people trying to kill me? I feel good about it so far but dyam that got me working HARD for this!!! |
if they werent interested in u they wouldnt go thru so much...good luck! im feeling like u got this one in the bag... |
dime...thank you!!! everytime i think it just might be over..they want something else.
brklyscribe: enjoy it...i wish the love bug would bite me in the ASS right now..
mrdilligaf456
Mar 8 2006, 05:38 PM
Honeybee,
Do you give a fuck?
Hmmm...
D
HoneyBee
Mar 8 2006, 05:42 PM
| QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Mar 8 2006, 05:38 PM) |
Honeybee,
Do you give a fuck?
Hmmm...
D |
acevac
Mar 8 2006, 05:43 PM
BKLYNScribe
Mar 8 2006, 05:47 PM
| QUOTE (deka @ Mar 8 2006, 05:33 PM) |
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 8 2006, 05:08 PM) | | QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM) | | there is nothing i would not do to keep this feeling forever |
Here are some secrets to keeping him and yourself happy
1. Give him the goods whenever he requests it.
2. Leave him alone during any sporting events.
3. Keep food in his stomach.
4. When he asks how your day went, keep the reply under 60 seconds. |
yo RWC number four is not going to happen sun  but all the other joints is really easy for a woman to do. |
happy to comply with all of the above--especially number one. (is it wrong that i'm the one usually requesting that. should i give him a chance to ask for it, you think?)
Quel
Mar 8 2006, 06:14 PM
The Butterfly is gone.....
Wonder why celebs just dont get laser, they can afford it???
BKLYNScribe
Mar 8 2006, 06:15 PM
| QUOTE (Quel @ Mar 8 2006, 06:14 PM) |
The Butterfly is gone.....
Wonder why celebs just dont get laser, they can afford it??? |
huh? it's gone. already?
tarheelnny
Mar 8 2006, 06:28 PM
OMG...OMG...I just came back home..and I almost had an anxiety attack today.
I was walking under those platforms...are they called scaffels (sp?)..i don't know..you know the ones in which they use temporarily put up to to build things in the city ...and almost fainted. Also, I was stopping to gather myself before
I walked into buildings with huge doors!
this accident has fucked up my mental. I don't mind revolving doors..but heavy doors, tall doors....GOT REALLY REALLY NEXT TO ME today....
oh my lord. I felt like I was on some type of illegal drug walking in buidlings today.
mrdilligaf456
Mar 8 2006, 06:34 PM
The new crack-

Be afraid, be very afraid. These joints are straight up addictive.
shadesnyc
Mar 8 2006, 06:36 PM
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM) |
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Mar 8 2006, 04:51 PM) | girl...thats good!! very beautiful....can u see urself spending the rest of ur life with him? |
 at the replies. thank you. yes, DIME! 100% yes. and that's what scares me. it's crazy. just crazy. |
you do what makes you happy
take the plunge and f#$% what everybody else thinks.
tarheelnny
Mar 8 2006, 06:36 PM
LOL @ dill.
I've had tangerines, navel oranges, clementines, ...but never mandarin oranges..EVER.
must try it...must try it.
mrdilligaf456
Mar 8 2006, 06:43 PM
Tar don't be mad at me when you get strung out on them. They're the best.
kounslor
Mar 8 2006, 06:45 PM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 8 2006, 03:50 PM) |
| QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 03:47 PM) | | QUOTE | | GHETT--OUT of that trap sista! |
Done deal...I have accepted the obvious and moved on, my secuirty detail (when complete) will have a due bill thats all. He has shown me that either A- he has become an inconsiderate asshole that I couldn't tolerate anyway or B-Someone has him rapped so tight he wouldn't even risk calling me or a host of some other shit I no longer have time to figure out. I should have just ask for excuses to give on why things won't add up right You guys are truly theraputic and I appreciate your comments. |
Good deal.
Give him back his dough because you don't Mr. Po knocking on the door because ignorance of the law does not excuse you and if he ain't get a nice large tax return and he didn't cash out his 401K, how is he, and more importantly, you gonna explain where it came from??? |
I know I'm late. I've been reading through this and I'm glad RWC (as usual) was a voice of reason.
I may have missed something, but it seems to me that more than worrying about why the guy isn't calling, there should be some questions as to the source of the six figures. Or maybe you already know. But, I don't think putting that up in a bank is a good idea. And I'm guessing he feels the same way, otherwise he'd have it somewhere earning interest. Don't be one of the many women to get caught up cause of their dude.
dimendaruff
Mar 9 2006, 09:21 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 8 2006, 05:08 PM) |
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 05:00 PM) | | there is nothing i would not do to keep this feeling forever |
Here are some secrets to keeping him and yourself happy
1. Give him the goods whenever he requests it.
2. Leave him alone during any sporting events.
3. Keep food in his stomach.
4. When he asks how your day went, keep the reply under 60 seconds. |
those r easy...i thought u wouldve been more creative bro...
slave
Mar 9 2006, 09:29 AM
| QUOTE (tarheelnny @ Mar 8 2006, 06:28 PM) |
I was walking under those platforms...are they called scaffels (sp?).. |
Now you have scaffold

phobia. The random probability of fate has altered your daily perception of everyday activities. Keep a note of everything that has changed for your lawsuit.
RoyaleWithCheese
Mar 9 2006, 09:41 AM
Why for the second consecutive day did a white woman try to be funny and ask me if I were Darryll Littlejohn while i'm reading my paper on the train???
I gave her the
and kept reading.
slave
Mar 9 2006, 09:43 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 9 2006, 09:41 AM) |
Why for the second consecutive day did a white woman try to be funny and ask me if I were Darryll Littlejohn while i'm reading my paper on the train???
I gave her the and kept reading. |
You should have told her no, you was OJ.
dimendaruff
Mar 9 2006, 09:56 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 9 2006, 09:41 AM) |
Why for the second consecutive day did a white woman try to be funny and ask me if I were Darryll Littlejohn while i'm reading my paper on the train???
I gave her the and kept reading. |
MsBrg722
Mar 9 2006, 10:04 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 9 2006, 09:41 AM) |
Why for the second consecutive day did a white woman try to be funny and ask me if I were Darryll Littlejohn while i'm reading my paper on the train???
I gave her the and kept reading. |
I mean come on...the resemblance is uncanny...
BKLYNScribe
Mar 9 2006, 10:12 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 9 2006, 09:41 AM) |
Why for the second consecutive day did a white woman try to be funny and ask me if I were Darryll Littlejohn while i'm reading my paper on the train???
I gave her the and kept reading. |
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