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RoyaleWithCheese
QUOTE (Alfredo_fedicini @ Mar 8 2006, 10:29 AM)
YO TAR..I NEED THAT!!!..I BEEN TRYING TO GET THAT FOR MONTHS

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"No my brotha.....you got to get your own...."
Alfredo_fedicini
Well damn..What a nig got to do to be in the " circle of trust"?..

I can tape dance!
Buy some Beanpye jewelry for my sister
Get some sneakers airbrushed Deka styles
Buy a ESSOIL CD
Buy an Ill Natural CD

WHATEVER YA'LL BUMPING I'm BUYING!..Next Meet and Greet ..I'm buying drinks?..WHAT!!

WHAT..WHAT YA'LL WANT!!?!? laugh.gif laugh.gif ..I just want to get that MARTIN DVD SET?
mrdilligaf456
I just wanna hip my fellow crusaders to my boy Young Frogs acting debut! An independent joint called Damon. Damon Trailer
HoneyBee
Did anybody catch the story about the African American officer shooting the guy in the military. There talking about giving him 20 yrs...not that I condone his actions but would a white cop have received so many years?
And what about all the past beatings that are not on record from the 50's-70's...I have heard some pretty wild stories from my uncles and family members
RoyaleWithCheese
QUOTE (Alfredo_fedicini @ Mar 8 2006, 10:50 AM)
Buy an Ill Natural CD

WHATEVER YA'LL BUMPING I'm BUYING!..Next Meet and Greet ..I'm buying drinks?..WHAT!!

WHAT..WHAT YA'LL WANT!!?!? laugh.gif laugh.gif ..I just want to get that MARTIN DVD SET?

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Have some pride!!! Get yourself together man!!!!

Upcoming ILL Nat EP is only $15 and you have to buy a minimum of 5. It's a special sale for only you Alf.

laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif
BKLYNScribe
QUOTE (HoneyBee @ Mar 8 2006, 11:00 AM)
Did anybody catch the story about the African American officer shooting the guy in the military.  There talking about giving him 20 yrs...not that I condone his actions but would a white cop have received so many years?
And what about all the past beatings that are not on record from the 50's-70's...I have heard some pretty wild stories from my uncles and family members

i'm assuming he shot a white dude?

white cops who shoot black people or even black officers for any reason usually get administrative leave with pay.

why did the cop shoot the officer or why did he say he shot him?
MsBrg722
QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Mar 8 2006, 10:51 AM)
I just wanna hip my fellow crusaders to my boy Young Frogs acting debut!  An independent joint called Damon.  Damon Trailer

Dope. Congrats. smile.gif
slave
QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 11:02 AM)
QUOTE (HoneyBee @ Mar 8 2006, 11:00 AM)
Did anybody catch the story about the African American officer shooting the guy in the military.  There talking about giving him 20 yrs...not that I condone his actions but would a white cop have received so many years?
And what about all the past beatings that are not on record from the 50's-70's...I have heard some pretty wild stories from my uncles and family members

i'm assuming he shot a white dude?

white cops who shoot black people or even black officers for any reason usually get administrative leave with pay.

why did the cop shoot the officer or why did he say he shot him?

It is a sad case. That black cop ruined his life because the adrenalin and instinct that he was trained to use overwhelmed him. He had just finished chasing these guys in a corvette, he was alone, at night. The tape is what doomed him. He clearly told the gentleman to get up. The gentleman complied and he shot him. If there was no tape, he would have gotten away with it. They took a month to listen to that tape 20,000 times to realize that the cop was wrong. I think that is more fucked up. Cops never admit to be wrong. Supervisors will cover for anyone. If there was no tape, the guy would have no case. Cops are protected, even when they are wrong. Thats why it took so long. they were trying to find some millisecond on that tape to justify the shooting, and they couldn't. I knew it was wrong the first time I saw it.

http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-hi...ines-california
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNyWryPU5gc
Froglips
QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Mar 8 2006, 12:11 PM)
QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Mar 8 2006, 10:51 AM)
I just wanna hip my fellow crusaders to my boy Young Frogs acting debut!  An independent joint called Damon.  Damon Trailer

Dope. Congrats. smile.gif

Thanx! rolleyes.gif
BKLYNScribe
QUOTE (slave @ Mar 8 2006, 11:11 AM)
QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 11:02 AM)
QUOTE (HoneyBee @ Mar 8 2006, 11:00 AM)
Did anybody catch the story about the African American officer shooting the guy in the military.  There talking about giving him 20 yrs...not that I condone his actions but would a white cop have received so many years?
And what about all the past beatings that are not on record from the 50's-70's...I have heard some pretty wild stories from my uncles and family members

i'm assuming he shot a white dude?

white cops who shoot black people or even black officers for any reason usually get administrative leave with pay.

why did the cop shoot the officer or why did he say he shot him?

It is a sad case. That black cop ruined his life because the adrenalin and instinct that he was trained to use overwhelmed him. He had just finished chasing these guys in a corvette, he was alone, at night. The tape is what doomed him. He clearly told the gentleman to get up. The gentleman complied and he shot him. If there was no tape, he would have gotten away with it. They took a month to listen to that tape 20,000 times to realize that the cop was wrong. I think that is more fucked up. Cops never admit to be wrong. Supervisors will cover for anyone. If there was no tape, the guy would have no case. Cops are protected, even when they are wrong. Thats why it took so long. they were trying to find some millisecond on that tape to justify the shooting, and they couldn't. I knew it was wrong the first time I saw it.

if he shot him like that, sounds like he deserves the 20.
slave
Frogs, do you get killed soon after your Academy Award winning Amen? It's hard out there for a pimp..
HoneyBee
QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 11:13 AM)
QUOTE (slave @ Mar 8 2006, 11:11 AM)
QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 11:02 AM)
QUOTE (HoneyBee @ Mar 8 2006, 11:00 AM)
Did anybody catch the story about the African American officer shooting the guy in the military.  There talking about giving him 20 yrs...not that I condone his actions but would a white cop have received so many years?
And what about all the past beatings that are not on record from the 50's-70's...I have heard some pretty wild stories from my uncles and family members

i'm assuming he shot a white dude?

white cops who shoot black people or even black officers for any reason usually get administrative leave with pay.

why did the cop shoot the officer or why did he say he shot him?

It is a sad case. That black cop ruined his life because the adrenalin and instinct that he was trained to use overwhelmed him. He had just finished chasing these guys in a corvette, he was alone, at night. The tape is what doomed him. He clearly told the gentleman to get up. The gentleman complied and he shot him. If there was no tape, he would have gotten away with it. They took a month to listen to that tape 20,000 times to realize that the cop was wrong. I think that is more fucked up. Cops never admit to be wrong. Supervisors will cover for anyone. If there was no tape, the guy would have no case. Cops are protected, even when they are wrong. Thats why it took so long. they were trying to find some millisecond on that tape to justify the shooting, and they couldn't. I knew it was wrong the first time I saw it.

if he shot him like that, sounds like he deserves the 20.

Yeah, he was cursing at the man while he wan on the ground...he shot him after he told him too get up! Its all on the tape...he's going away for years no doubt...major boo boo on his part!
SeeLaH
QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Mar 8 2006, 10:51 AM)
I just wanna hip my fellow crusaders to my boy Young Frogs acting debut! An independent joint called Damon. Damon Trailer

AMEN!! "We are truly blessed to finally see you." laugh.gif

(Frogs, next time, tell the person who edited this trailer to put more of you on the screen!!)

When's the next church session??! wink.gif

Keep up the good works, Frogs, always. cool.gif
dimendaruff
QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Mar 8 2006, 10:51 AM)
I just wanna hip my fellow crusaders to my boy Young Frogs acting debut! An independent joint called Damon. Damon Trailer

dope 4 real frogs... wink.gif
Froglips
QUOTE (slave @ Mar 8 2006, 12:19 PM)
Frogs, do you get killed soon after your Academy Award winning Amen? It's hard out there for a pimp..

LMAO!!! I just get started in this Hollywood chit and you want me to mess up my relationship with my director!!! mad.gif

Now you know I cain't tell you dat!!!!

You gotta come see the movie to get that info!!! lol

_______________________________________________________________

word and for those of you who are interested: Damon will be screening at the Westchester Film Festival on March 11th at 5:30pm. For info, goto www.BuffaloSoldierFilms.com or http://www.westchestergov.com/filmoffice/. After Damon is a movie staring Danny Aiello and Jane Curtin and then following that is a moive with Sean Penn, Don Cheadle and Naomi Watt. Not bad company huh? smile.gif Should be a good night. Danny Aiello will be there, not sure about the others.



shadesnyc
QUOTE (Froglips @ Mar 8 2006, 11:39 AM)
QUOTE (slave @ Mar 8 2006, 12:19 PM)
Frogs, do you get killed soon after your Academy Award winning Amen?  It's hard out there for a pimp..

LMAO!!! I just get started in this Hollywood chit and you want me to mess up my relationship with my director!!! mad.gif

Now you know I cain't tell you dat!!!!

You gotta come see the movie to get that info!!! lol

_______________________________________________________________

word and for those of you who are interested: Damon will be screening at the Westchester Film Festival on March 11th at 5:30pm. For info, goto www.BuffaloSoldierFilms.com or http://www.westchestergov.com/filmoffice/. After Damon is a movie staring Danny Aiello and Jane Curtin and then following that is a moive with Sean Penn, Don Cheadle and Naomi Watt. Not bad company huh? smile.gif Should be a good night. Danny Aiello will be there, not sure about the others.

dis man is going places people


where de cd at! dat darn myspace player be buffering too much for my taste. I likey the music too much to be waiting now...
tarheelnny
CONGRATS FROGS

damn..that ladies voice came me chills... unsure.gif


DEKS...here u go with the circle of trust!! lol
slave
QUOTE (Froglips @ Mar 8 2006, 11:39 AM)


_______________________________________________________________

word and for those of you who are interested: Damon will be screening at the Westchester Film Festival on March 11th at 5:30pm. For info, goto www.BuffaloSoldierFilms.com or http://www.westchestergov.com/filmoffice/. After Damon is a movie staring Danny Aiello and Jane Curtin and then following that is a moive with Sean Penn, Don Cheadle and Naomi Watt. Not bad company huh? smile.gif Should be a good night. Danny Aiello will be there, not sure about the others.

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SeeLaH
3 more days until I start drinking OJ (the Master Cleanser is DONE!!)

I can't wait! I started the MC at 130lbs. and now I'm at 112.5lbs. I can barely fit my clothes (thank the Lawd for the little bit of boonkey I have left). Funny thing is, I feel great! Light like a feather!! And I can't wait to see what I'm allergic to this time!! (Last time, it was beer!) biggrin.gif
Froglips
Thanks peeps!!! Much love!
SeeLaH
QUOTE (Froglips @ Mar 8 2006, 11:48 AM)
Thanks peeps!!! Much love!

Frogs, since I can't make it out to Westchester to see the movie, I'ma ask now:


Is it just that part or do you have more movie time? cool.gif
RoyaleWithCheese
Congrats Froggy.

Make sure from now on in your contract they don't kill you before the credits end and if you hear some chilling music don't walk in that direction or in the woods.
shadesnyc
ok i have to talk about this to the fam

there is this girl in my office who just broke up with her boyfriend for two years about two months ago because he was frontin on them gettin married (and he was the one who brought up getting married their first year together).

she's been all up in arms about it for a while. i basically tell her "he's not worth your time, stop answering the phone when he calls, put a code name over his number to remind you not to pick up the phone (scribe taught me that one)," the usual uplift the girlfriend speak.

now, she's jonesin over this dude in our office who she went to school with. They text all the time, she's in his cube all the time, she's already admitted to me that she likes him and that he's her "type". i think she's just setting herself up for a fall - since he already has a girlfriend.

I wanna say something to her about just backing off a bit - but i don't wanna look like i'm in her business. do i do anything? or do i just let her fall?

whew, that felt good to get off my chest. smile.gif
BKLYNScribe
QUOTE (shadesnyc @ Mar 8 2006, 11:53 AM)
ok i have to talk about this to the fam

there is this girl in my office who just broke up with her boyfriend for two years about two months ago because he was frontin on them gettin married (and he was the one who brought up getting married their first year together).

she's been all up in arms about it for a while. i basically tell her "he's not worth your time, stop answering the phone when he calls, put a code name over his number to remind you not to pick up the phone (scribe taught me that one)," the usual uplift the girlfriend speak.

now, she's jonesin over this dude in our office who she went to school with. They text all the time, she's in his cube all the time, she's already admitted to me that she likes him and that he's her "type". i think she's just setting herself up for a fall - since he already has a girlfriend.

I wanna say something to her about just backing off a bit - but i don't wanna look like i'm in her business. do i do anything? or do i just let her fall?

whew, that felt good to get off my chest. smile.gif

let her fall. if she's that caught up, nothing you say will change her mind. you'll just be the hater co-worker butting in her BI.

if she comes to you about it and asks what you think, tell her. otherwise.... shh! tongue.gif
slave
QUOTE (shadesnyc @ Mar 8 2006, 11:53 AM)
ok i have to talk about this to the fam

there is this girl in my office who just broke up with her boyfriend for two years about two months ago because he was frontin on them gettin married (and he was the one who brought up getting married their first year together).

she's been all up in arms about it for a while. i basically tell her "he's not worth your time, stop answering the phone when he calls, put a code name over his number to remind you not to pick up the phone (scribe taught me that one)," the usual uplift the girlfriend speak.

now, she's jonesin over this dude in our office who she went to school with. They text all the time, she's in his cube all the time, she's already admitted to me that she likes him and that he's her "type". i think she's just setting herself up for a fall - since he already has a girlfriend.

I wanna say something to her about just backing off a bit - but i don't wanna look like i'm in her business. do i do anything? or do i just let her fall?

whew, that felt good to get off my chest. smile.gif

She really ain't your girl, so mind your business in the new city new job. Ole girl needs to go back and soul search with Nervous Ned and figure out if they are lovers or just "in love." If she's mad at him for not commiting, that is traditional, if she just wants to get dicked out real fast by an involved coworker, that is traditional as well. None of it will make YOUR life better.
Froglips
QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Mar 8 2006, 12:50 PM)
QUOTE (Froglips @ Mar 8 2006, 11:48 AM)
Thanks peeps!!!  Much love!

Frogs, since I can't make it out to Westchester to see the movie, I'ma ask now:


Is it just that part or do you have more movie time? cool.gif

See, thanks for asking. No my part is not just limited to the pulpit. I have a pretty decent speaking part. I am by no means the star of the film but I had a few pages to memorize if you know what I mean. wink.gif
MsBrg722
QUOTE (shadesnyc @ Mar 8 2006, 11:53 AM)
ok i have to talk about this to the fam

there is this girl in my office who just broke up with her boyfriend for two years about two months ago because he was frontin on them gettin married (and he was the one who brought up getting married their first year together).

she's been all up in arms about it for a while.  i basically tell her "he's not worth your time, stop answering the phone when he calls, put a code name over his number to remind you not to pick up the phone (scribe taught me that one)," the usual uplift the girlfriend speak.

now, she's jonesin over this dude in our office who she went to school with.  They text all the time, she's in his cube all the time, she's already admitted to me that she likes him and that he's her "type".  i think she's just setting herself up for a fall - since he already has a girlfriend.

I wanna say something to her about just backing off a bit - but i don't wanna look like i'm in her business.  do i do anything?  or do i just let her fall?

whew, that felt good to get off my chest. smile.gif

Depends on a couple of things. 1) How friendly are you guys and 2) Will you feel guilty if you don't say anything.

I'm the type of friend that tells it like it is...mostly because I don't have time to be listening to sob stories of misfortune later on. If I feel like something isn't good for you...I will tell you...you do what you want. But all my friends no better than to come cry to me after they decided to be hardheaded. They go on permanent mute. rolleyes.gif
tarheelnny
i hate to say it...but SHADES

mind your bizness unless she comes to you beggin' you for your advice..and then..when and IF that happens...KSS (keep shit short) and keep it moving.
you don't want to be part of the office drama..that WILL (I repeat) WILL GO DOWN...

it never fails..never eff a co-worker..esp one that has a girlfriend


she is playing herself. like scribe said..let her fall...she is grown ..she'll learn in due time


she is just on the rebound...and we all know that rebound jump offs have time frames..... it will end.
dimendaruff
QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Mar 8 2006, 11:57 AM)
QUOTE (shadesnyc @ Mar 8 2006, 11:53 AM)
ok i have to talk about this to the fam

there is this girl in my office who just broke up with her boyfriend for two years about two months ago because he was frontin on them gettin married (and he was the one who brought up getting married their first year together).

she's been all up in arms about it for a while.  i basically tell her "he's not worth your time, stop answering the phone when he calls, put a code name over his number to remind you not to pick up the phone (scribe taught me that one)," the usual uplift the girlfriend speak.

now, she's jonesin over this dude in our office who she went to school with.  They text all the time, she's in his cube all the time, she's already admitted to me that she likes him and that he's her "type".  i think she's just setting herself up for a fall - since he already has a girlfriend.

I wanna say something to her about just backing off a bit - but i don't wanna look like i'm in her business.  do i do anything?  or do i just let her fall?

whew, that felt good to get off my chest. smile.gif

let her fall. if she's that caught up, nothing you say will change her mind. you'll just be the hater co-worker butting in her BI.

if she comes to you about it and asks what you think, tell her. otherwise.... shh! tongue.gif

im with scribe on this...def fall back unless shes asks 4 ur input...she will learn...
RoyaleWithCheese
QUOTE (shadesnyc @ Mar 8 2006, 11:53 AM)
ok i have to talk about this to the fam

there is this girl in my office who just broke up with her boyfriend for two years about two months ago because he was frontin on them gettin married (and he was the one who brought up getting married their first year together).

she's been all up in arms about it for a while. i basically tell her "he's not worth your time, stop answering the phone when he calls, put a code name over his number to remind you not to pick up the phone (scribe taught me that one)," the usual uplift the girlfriend speak.

now, she's jonesin over this dude in our office who she went to school with. They text all the time, she's in his cube all the time, she's already admitted to me that she likes him and that he's her "type". i think she's just setting herself up for a fall - since he already has a girlfriend.

I wanna say something to her about just backing off a bit - but i don't wanna look like i'm in her business. do i do anything? or do i just let her fall?

whew, that felt good to get off my chest. smile.gif

This is what is going to happen;

She's all up into new dude because he's making her feel good

She probably told him about the fiance and he's gonna latch onto that like wolves to bunnies

He's gonna tap it cause she's vulnerable

She's gonna feel like shit afterwards

She's gonna go back to duke


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lawcutie
QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Mar 8 2006, 11:48 AM)
3 more days until I start drinking OJ (the Master Cleanser is DONE!!)

I can't wait! I started the MC at 130lbs. and now I'm at 112.5lbs. I can barely fit my clothes (thank the Lawd for the little bit of boonkey I have left). Funny thing is, I feel great! Light like a feather!! And I can't wait to see what I'm allergic to this time!! (Last time, it was beer!) biggrin.gif

WHOA! Congrats, girl! That's a major accomplishment. So, you didn't eat food for how many days? I can't even imagine not eating for days. I feel like I would die! You weren't starving? I commend you on your discipline. I need to get some...
shadesnyc
thanks for the advice. i'll be keeping my mouth shut, unless she asks for advice. i don't want to get in the middle of unnecessary drama in the office.
SeeLaH
QUOTE (lawcutie @ Mar 8 2006, 12:12 PM)
QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Mar 8 2006, 11:48 AM)
3 more days until I start drinking OJ (the Master Cleanser is DONE!!)

I can't wait! I started the MC at 130lbs. and now I'm at 112.5lbs. I can barely fit my clothes (thank the Lawd for the little bit of boonkey I have left). Funny thing is, I feel great! Light like a feather!! And I can't wait to see what I'm allergic to this time!! (Last time, it was beer!)  biggrin.gif

WHOA! Congrats, girl! That's a major accomplishment. So, you didn't eat food for how many days? I can't even imagine not eating for days. I feel like I would die! You weren't starving? I commend you on your discipline. I need to get some...

technically, I have been eating but not solid food. I've been drinking "liquid food" for 12 days now. Everytime I got hungry, I would drink my tea and be fine for a couple of hours until I was hungry again. When I first started, my 1 Liter thermos would be done by the end of the day...nowadays, by the time 5pm hits, half of my thermos is full.

thanks for the congrats. I can't wait until this is over!! I have been craving OJ for the past week! laugh.gif
Alfredo_fedicini
QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Mar 8 2006, 12:48 PM)
3 more days until I start drinking OJ (the Master Cleanser is DONE!!)

I can't wait! I started the MC at 130lbs. and now I'm at 112.5lbs. I can barely fit my clothes (thank the Lawd for the little bit of boonkey I have left). Funny thing is, I feel great! Light like a feather!! And I can't wait to see what I'm allergic to this time!! (Last time, it was beer!) biggrin.gif

WOW..Congrats to you Seelah but you sure you still got a boonkey?..At 112 pounds I don't know? blink.gif ..How many days were you on that Master Cleanser
SeeLaH
QUOTE (Alfredo_fedicini @ Mar 8 2006, 12:38 PM)
QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Mar 8 2006, 12:48 PM)
3 more days until I start drinking OJ (the Master Cleanser is DONE!!)

I can't wait! I started the MC at 130lbs. and now I'm at 112.5lbs. I can barely fit my clothes (thank the Lawd for the little bit of boonkey I have left). Funny thing is, I feel great! Light like a feather!! And I can't wait to see what I'm allergic to this time!! (Last time, it was beer!)  biggrin.gif

WOW..Congrats to you Seelah but you sure you still got a boonkey?..At 112 pounds I don't know? blink.gif ..How many days were you on that Master Cleanser

thanks. And yes I still have a boonkey (something has got to be holding up my pants and I never had hips) lol

When I hit below 110, the boonkey will be gone (trust me, I've been there. my lowest weight was at 103 and I hated it). I've been on the Master cleanser for 12 days so far. People who see me are like, "damn. you gotta stop it now. it's too much." but they don't want me to give up either, especially since I'm almost done.


Like I tell everyone else, don't worry. When I gain the weight back, the boonkey will look better than ever (and so will my 3 and a half pack!) laugh.gif wink.gif


FROGS: you gotta hit me with a copy of the movie or something! I don't think I want to wait until it goes to DVD. wink.gif
acevac
QUOTE (Froglips @ Mar 8 2006, 12:02 PM)
QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Mar 8 2006, 12:50 PM)
QUOTE (Froglips @ Mar 8 2006, 11:48 AM)
Thanks peeps!!!  Much love!

Frogs, since I can't make it out to Westchester to see the movie, I'ma ask now:


Is it just that part or do you have more movie time? cool.gif

See, thanks for asking. No my part is not just limited to the pulpit. I have a pretty decent speaking part. I am by no means the star of the film but I had a few pages to memorize if you know what I mean. wink.gif

u already know wink.gif today is a good day.......

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G.U.N. baby!!!!!!!! biggrin.gif rolleyes.gif

http://www.sohh.com/articles/article.php/8476

It's coming together biggrin.gif
Monah Lisa
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dimendaruff
QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 01:26 PM)
I want to ask a question, but not start a thread so I'll try and ask here...
Ladies, (gents welcome)...If a guy you're REALLY close with does something that is flat out inconsiderate (for the 2nd time) even though you have said this really bothers you...and he has left you with 6 figures of his....would you go out and make yourself feel better about it? and Ladies you know how we do that....
I am not like that but I hate an inconsiderate asshole mad.gif .....my problem is just like the thread about the girl with the guy who leaves and she doesn't hear from him..
Any advice?.....If its to foggy I can elaborate

girl thats risky...the story is a bit foggy, probably because i dont remember the thread ur referring 2...is he gone? or r u considering "making urself feel better about the situation" as a revengeful tactic?
BKLYNScribe
QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 01:26 PM)
I want to ask a question, but not start a thread so I'll try and ask here...
Ladies, (gents welcome)...If a guy you're REALLY close with does something that is flat out inconsiderate (for the 2nd time) even though you have said this really bothers you...and he has left you with 6 figures of his....would you go out and make yourself feel better about it? and Ladies you know how we do that....
I am not like that but I hate an inconsiderate asshole mad.gif .....my problem is just like the thread about the girl with the guy who leaves and she doesn't hear from him..
Any advice?.....If its to foggy I can elaborate

um, i think you're introducing yourself to the poultry field if you do that. like all you are teaching dude is he can treat you however as long as he spends paper on you. are you expecting this to teach him a lesson? or is this a final "fuck you" before you bounce for good?

either/or.. you're bringing drama into your life. but hey, some people like that.

770
QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 01:26 PM)
I want to ask a question, but not start a thread so I'll try and ask here...
Ladies, (gents welcome)...If a guy you're REALLY close with does something that is flat out inconsiderate (for the 2nd time) even though you have said this really bothers you...and he has left you with 6 figures of his....would you go out and make yourself feel better about it? and Ladies you know how we do that....
I am not like that but I hate an inconsiderate asshole mad.gif .....my problem is just like the thread about the girl with the guy who leaves and she doesn't hear from him..
Any advice?.....If its to foggy I can elaborate

I'm totally confused -- 6 figures of his-- he gave you dough? I mean either way it sounds like you need to leave him alone -- but don't mess with his money -- that could mean him messing with your life.

And if "making yourself feel better" means cheating -- don't do that either. Be the bigger person.

Monah Lisa
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clippersnw
The Clippers played there best game of the season last night!!!!
6-7 weeks until the palyoffs rolleyes.gif
GPRED
QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:00 PM)
QUOTE
as a revengeful tactic?

Yep....and I know better. I won't pretend to not know the obvious...Something has his full attention...enough to not think to call me for anything and I resent it.
But I told him when he came here and took me to the Superbowl (because the weeks before that...no call blink.gif ) if he has a woman and in love then that is who should be holding his loot, not me. I be damned if I keep your nest egg safe for you and the next hoe. With a calm expression...he said o.k....that isn't the deal...the no call situation came from our phone issues dry.gif and what lines he want to communicate on (bullsh**) so...smart ass gives me a phone and guess what?...you now it....Tell me this bastard ain't trying to pull the shit on me...like I'm stupid (I try not to be)....So is he super inconsiderate? Using me? work is stressfull and theres no time to call and make sure your loot is o.k? I do have some nerve looking for his calls when I have someone (my someone broke me and this idiot up laugh.gif )...o.k thats not funny....and also I have not been intimate with mr. inconsiderate in over 10 years.
The problem is you ask a favor of me...no problem, but I can't get a call.

I'd be holding his doe right at the mall. laugh.gif

That'll teach his ass not to call. dry.gif
acevac
QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:00 PM)
QUOTE
as a revengeful tactic?

Yep....and I know better. I won't pretend to not know the obvious...Something has his full attention...enough to not think to call me for anything and I resent it.
But I told him when he came here and took me to the Superbowl (because the weeks before that...no call blink.gif ) if he has a woman and in love then that is who should be holding his loot, not me. I be damned if I keep your nest egg safe for you and the next hoe. With a calm expression...he said o.k....that isn't the deal...the no call situation came from our phone issues dry.gif and what lines he want to communicate on (bullsh**) so...smart ass gives me a phone and guess what?...you now it....Tell me this bastard ain't trying to pull the shit on me...like I'm stupid (I try not to be)....So is he super inconsiderate? Using me? work is stressfull and theres no time to call and make sure your loot is o.k? I do have some nerve looking for his calls when I have someone (my someone broke me and this idiot up laugh.gif )...o.k thats not funny....and also I have not been intimate with mr. inconsiderate in over 10 years.
The problem is you ask a favor of me...no problem, but I can't get a call.

damn u getting gamed up sad.gif huh.gif
BKLYNScribe
QUOTE (2 cents from the D @ Mar 8 2006, 02:00 PM)
QUOTE
as a revengeful tactic?

Yep....and I know better. I won't pretend to not know the obvious...Something has his full attention...enough to not think to call me for anything and I resent it.
But I told him when he came here and took me to the Superbowl (because the weeks before that...no call blink.gif ) if he has a woman and in love then that is who should be holding his loot, not me. I be damned if I keep your nest egg safe for you and the next hoe. With a calm expression...he said o.k....that isn't the deal...the no call situation came from our phone issues dry.gif and what lines he want to communicate on (bullsh**) so...smart ass gives me a phone and guess what?...you now it....Tell me this bastard ain't trying to pull the shit on me...like I'm stupid (I try not to be)....So is he super inconsiderate? Using me? work is stressfull and theres no time to call and make sure your loot is o.k? I do have some nerve looking for his calls when I have someone (my someone broke me and this idiot up laugh.gif )...o.k thats not funny....and also I have not been intimate with mr. inconsiderate in over 10 years.
The problem is you ask a favor of me...no problem, but I can't get a call.

uh, you sound like a scorned woman. you got played. it happens to the best of us. take an L... but now that i know the details...

you have the money, he rarely calls. how gangsta is dude? like light-weight or on some serious shit (i'm assuming light-weight by the way he is handling the situation). i'm thinking if he's leaving the money with you and he ain't treating you decent, he can't be that concerned about the money. maybe there is plenty more where that came from.

since possession in nine-tenths of the law and if the money was legal on his end, it would be in an account somewhere so you wouldn't be holding it (ie the law ain't getting involved), i say you take the money, do a little short-term investing, stop answering the phone when dude calls. give it 90 days to see if he completley flips out and if no, put it in an IRA. make him invest in you. ta-da! (how'd i do Bill, i been taking notes. laugh.gif )

RoyaleWithCheese
QUOTE (acevac @ Mar 8 2006, 02:06 PM)
damn u getting gamed up sad.gif huh.gif

WORD!!!!

Sweety, he gave you six figures to 'hold'??? Unless your will is written out already and you have done everything you ever wanted to do you may want to NOT play wth his dough.

Your ass will be fertilizer.


wink.gif
acevac
She gonna get you killed, if u in the D ....return that money yo....for he go Larry Chambers on you wink.gif
770
QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Mar 8 2006, 02:11 PM)
QUOTE (acevac @ Mar 8 2006, 02:06 PM)
damn u getting gamed up sad.gif  huh.gif

WORD!!!!

Sweety, he gave you six figures to 'hold'??? Unless your will is written out already and you have done everything you ever wanted to do you may want to NOT play wth his dough.

Your ass will be fertilizer.


wink.gif

My thoughts exactly
Monah Lisa
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BKLYNScribe
QUOTE (acevac @ Mar 8 2006, 02:12 PM)
She gonna get you killed, if u in the D ....return that money yo....for he go Larry Chambers on you wink.gif

oh, shit!!!! laugh.gif laugh.gif

did you ever read that biogrpahy on him and his brother? that shit blew my mind. they were employing almost the same number of ppl. as the Detroit Ford Motor plant at their height.
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