BKLYNScribe
Jan 11 2006, 06:39 PM
| QUOTE (770 @ Jan 11 2006, 04:07 PM) |
[/QUOTE] True, however fucking opens up the possibility of having children which require moral disciplining...
just something to think about next time you get ready to get down |
that's what condoms, BCs and abortion clinics are for.

i
'm not having a kid i'm not ready for, thus i take precautions.
do you not get to know people before you fuck them? i do, so i can say with pretty strong certainty that issue will be discussed at some point. it comes up alot with my background.
FOLKS
Jan 11 2006, 06:40 PM
| QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) |
| I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
good question
mrdilligaf456
Jan 11 2006, 07:45 PM
Anybody got the Charlie Wilson album???
I'm about to cop and I wanna know y'all think.
Thanks in advance.
RichWinters
Jan 11 2006, 07:51 PM
| QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Jan 11 2006, 07:45 PM) |
Anybody got the Charlie Wilson album???
I'm about to cop and I wanna know y'all think.
Thanks in advance. |
It sounds like a old man trying to sound young. Not good
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 09:25 AM
| QUOTE (FOLKS @ Jan 11 2006, 06:40 PM) |
| QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) | | I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
good question
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hmmm...could that be the reason why black people are known to be more violent?....where does whupping stem from, slavery days...its how the "masters" kept the slaves in "check"...dont know bout ya'll but i dont want that cycle of ignorance in my home...
mrdilligaf456
Jan 12 2006, 09:30 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 09:25 AM) |
| QUOTE (FOLKS @ Jan 11 2006, 06:40 PM) | | QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) | | I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
good question
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hmmm...could that be the reason why black people are known to be more violent?....where does whupping stem from, slavery days...its how the "masters" kept the slaves in "check"...dont know bout ya'll but i dont want that cycle of ignorance in my home...
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Sorry Dime but I'm gonna have to call into question the cycle of ignorance in these quotes.
Sad and hilarious at the same time.
Quel
Jan 12 2006, 09:51 AM
| QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Jan 12 2006, 09:30 AM) |
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 09:25 AM) | | QUOTE (FOLKS @ Jan 11 2006, 06:40 PM) | | QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) | | I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
good question
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hmmm...could that be the reason why black people are known to be more violent?....where does whupping stem from, slavery days...its how the "masters" kept the slaves in "check"...dont know bout ya'll but i dont want that cycle of ignorance in my home...
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Sorry Dime but I'm gonna have to call into question the cycle of ignorance in these quotes.
Sad and hilarious at the same time.
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Black people more violent??? Where is the stat's on that or are we just going by what the media likes to portray.
How many black serial killers are there?
Canibals?
Serial rapist?
Give me a break!!!! Im disappointed. But I guess people will say whatever it takes to prove themselves right....Sad!
tarheelnny
Jan 12 2006, 09:51 AM
| QUOTE |
| hmmm...could that be the reason why black people are known to be more violent?....where does whupping stem from, slavery days...its how the "masters" kept the slaves in "check"...dont know bout ya'll but i dont want that cycle of ignorance in my home... |
DIME, what a SWEEPING generalization.
Where did u get the idea that Blacks are "KNOWN to be MORE VIOLENT"?
the media? I hope not...honeychile, I work in media and over half of this ish is perpetuated and twisted.
Don't belive the hype.
CYCLE OF IGNORANCE stops with education...not with sparing the rod.
acevac
Jan 12 2006, 09:52 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 09:25 AM) |
| QUOTE (FOLKS @ Jan 11 2006, 06:40 PM) | | QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) | | I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
good question
|
hmmm...could that be the reason why black people are known to be more violent?....where does whupping stem from, slavery days...its how the "masters" kept the slaves in "check"...dont know bout ya'll but i dont want that cycle of ignorance in my home...
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ELOCIN
Jan 12 2006, 09:56 AM
Let's be clear....I asked if there is a connection. Please keep me out of the 'ignorant' comments and dissapointment please.
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 09:57 AM
here we go again...check the stats and see what race has more violent tendancies toward each other...im done with this...im feeling kinda peaceful 2day...if i offended anyone by my comment, i apologize...but im sticking 2 what i said...abuse and violence is a cycle and i dont want that cycle in my home...period...
acevac
Jan 12 2006, 09:57 AM
| QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 12 2006, 09:56 AM) |
Let's be clear....I asked if there is a connection. Please keep me out of the 'ignorant' comments and dissapointment please. |
naw the habeeb's comments where most offensive.....
Quel
Jan 12 2006, 09:57 AM
The cycle of Ignorance is alive & kicking in your home and in your mind. Starting with the pure stupidity of your last statement!!

Elo, Im talking about shawty with the kid that defies her every other day!
Dime
miss_lady26
Jan 12 2006, 10:02 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 09:25 AM) |
| QUOTE (FOLKS @ Jan 11 2006, 06:40 PM) | | QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) | | I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
good question
|
hmmm...could that be the reason why black people are known to be more violent?....where does whupping stem from, slavery days...its how the "masters" kept the slaves in "check"...dont know bout ya'll but i dont want that cycle of ignorance in my home...
|
whoa.
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM
the cycle of ignorance that i was referring to is where "ass whuppins" stemmed from...which is slavery...not just blacks, even b4 that when israelites where slaves...they were "whipped" as a form of punishment...2 me thats ignorant...and 2 follow that would be like following how things were back then and i wouldnt want that...my words may have been out of context and a bit offensive and 4 that i do apologize but my point is, abuse is ignorance and IMHO so is physical discipline...
MsBrg722
Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 09:57 AM) |
| here we go again...check the stats and see what race has more violent tendancies toward each other...im done with this...im feeling kinda peaceful 2day...if i offended anyone by my comment, i apologize...but im sticking 2 what i said...abuse and violence is a cycle and i dont want that cycle in my home...period... |
You are wrong chica. I know you didn't mean to be offensive, but this topic has been done before...its one of the TC hot topics. You will be hard pressed to actually find supporting stats. Its a media twisted misconception. Some people in that thread may want a fight...but don't get defensive, most of them just want you to be aware of the inaccuracy of your comment...so you can know better.
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:07 AM
| QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM) |
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 09:57 AM) | | here we go again...check the stats and see what race has more violent tendancies toward each other...im done with this...im feeling kinda peaceful 2day...if i offended anyone by my comment, i apologize...but im sticking 2 what i said...abuse and violence is a cycle and i dont want that cycle in my home...period... |
You are wrong chica. I know you didn't mean to be offensive, but this topic has been done before...its one of the TC hot topics. You will be hard pressed to actually find supporting stats. Its a media twisted misconception. Some people in that thread may want a fight...but don't get defensive, most of them just want you to be aware of the inaccuracy of your comment...so you can know better.
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no doubt girl..which is y i did apologize...i have no problem admitting when i make a mistake...im just really really against hitting children...its something close 2 my heart...im not trying 2 offend anyone at all up in here..bcuz i really have respect and like 4 all members of TC which is y im up in here everyday...we are all intelligent ppl and i love the discussions...once again i do apologize if i have offended anyone...that was NOT NOT NOT my intention at all...
Quel
Jan 12 2006, 10:10 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM) |
| the cycle of ignorance that i was referring to is where "ass whuppins" stemmed from...which is slavery...not just blacks, even b4 that when israelites where slaves...they were "whipped" as a form of punishment...2 me thats ignorant...and 2 follow that would be like following how things were back then and i wouldnt want that...my words may have been out of context and a bit offensive and 4 that i do apologize but my point is, abuse is ignorance and IMHO so is physical discipline... |
So funny how you want to bring up Slavery now!!! You're a straight Trip. Not even worth the debate.
miss_lady26
Jan 12 2006, 10:11 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM) |
| the cycle of ignorance that i was referring to is where "ass whuppins" stemmed from...which is slavery...not just blacks, even b4 that when israelites where slaves...they were "whipped" as a form of punishment...2 me thats ignorant...and 2 follow that would be like following how things were back then and i wouldnt want that...my words may have been out of context and a bit offensive and 4 that i do apologize but my point is, abuse is ignorance and IMHO so is physical discipline... |
sorry babygirl, but 'whuppins' pre-date slavery.
I'm not tryin to be funny (or offensive) but since you haven't attended any form of an organized religion, there's a quote in the bible that says "spare the rod and spoil the child".....and I'm quite sure that the bible was around well before the slavery that you're referring to was implemented.
*interpretation of 'rod' is upon the individual*
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:18 AM
| QUOTE (miss_lady26 @ Jan 12 2006, 10:11 AM) |
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM) | | the cycle of ignorance that i was referring to is where "ass whuppins" stemmed from...which is slavery...not just blacks, even b4 that when israelites where slaves...they were "whipped" as a form of punishment...2 me thats ignorant...and 2 follow that would be like following how things were back then and i wouldnt want that...my words may have been out of context and a bit offensive and 4 that i do apologize but my point is, abuse is ignorance and IMHO so is physical discipline... |
sorry babygirl, but 'whuppins' pre-date slavery.
I'm not tryin to be funny (or offensive) but since you haven't attended any form of an organized religion, there's a quote in the bible that says "spare the rod and spoil the child".....and I'm quite sure that the bible was around well before the slavery that you're referring to was implemented.
*interpretation of 'rod' is upon the individual*
|
so when moses lead the israelites (slaves) out of slavery the bible was written b4 that?...bcuz im talking about slavery from before "america"...
Quel
Jan 12 2006, 10:20 AM
Just because you apologize does not take away from the fact that you actually believe that bull that your posting.
You can be cool with any and every member on the board, thats the beauty of TC we debate, cyber scrap, and keep on coming back but now at least we clearly see where you stand (fall rather) on certain issues.
But you just go head and enjoy your peacefull day! Ignorance is Bliss...I guess
tarheelnny
Jan 12 2006, 10:22 AM
| QUOTE |
| here we go again...check the stats and see what race has more violent tendancies toward each other...im done with this...im feeling kinda peaceful 2day...if i offended anyone by my comment, i apologize...but im sticking 2 what i said...abuse and violence is a cycle and i dont want that cycle in my home...period... |
whoa..............shawty...the stats are always skewd. again, don't believe the hype.
don't rely on the GIVEN.
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:26 AM
| QUOTE (Quel @ Jan 12 2006, 10:20 AM) |
Just because you apologize does not take away from the fact that you actually believe that bull that your posting.
You can be cool with any and every member on the board, thats the beauty of TC we debate, cyber scrap, and keep on coming back but now at least we clearly see where you stand (fall rather) on certain issues.
But you just go head and enjoy your peacefull day! Ignorance is Bliss...I guess |
that i believe what? that abuse and violence is ignorant? um..yeah i believe that...that it runs in cycles? yes i believe that...y do u continue 2 come at me..i said what i said, i reread it, i realized it was wrong and i apologized..seriously, take it or leave it....
miss_lady26
Jan 12 2006, 10:26 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 10:18 AM) |
| QUOTE (miss_lady26 @ Jan 12 2006, 10:11 AM) | | QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 10:05 AM) | | the cycle of ignorance that i was referring to is where "ass whuppins" stemmed from...which is slavery...not just blacks, even b4 that when israelites where slaves...they were "whipped" as a form of punishment...2 me thats ignorant...and 2 follow that would be like following how things were back then and i wouldnt want that...my words may have been out of context and a bit offensive and 4 that i do apologize but my point is, abuse is ignorance and IMHO so is physical discipline... |
sorry babygirl, but 'whuppins' pre-date slavery.
I'm not tryin to be funny (or offensive) but since you haven't attended any form of an organized religion, there's a quote in the bible that says "spare the rod and spoil the child".....and I'm quite sure that the bible was around well before the slavery that you're referring to was implemented.
*interpretation of 'rod' is upon the individual*
|
so when moses lead the israelites (slaves) out of slavery the bible was written b4 that?...bcuz im talking about slavery from before "america"...
|
ok, maybe I read you wrong cause it sure seemed like you were just referring to the pre-civil war slavery.......
mrdilligaf456
Jan 12 2006, 10:29 AM
Dime,
We're(me and you) are gonna just chalk this one up to a little misunderstanding. Black people are no more are less violent than anyone else. To be honest with you "black people" don't really even exist.
Don't worry about the critisism in the next couple of hours everyone will have forgotten this even happened. You're kool peeps and I gots luv for you sister, your heart is in the right place.
Please lower your weapons y'all. Let's turn our attention to Casualcal(jokes, sorta)
D
RoyaleWithCheese
Jan 12 2006, 10:31 AM
DIME, i'm going to assume you're talking from personal experience since you're an international cat killer and remember you saying how when you were you nger you and your girls would rob old folks for their checks at the check cashing spot.
miss_lady26
Jan 12 2006, 10:32 AM
| QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Jan 12 2006, 10:29 AM) |
Dime,
We're(me and you) are gonna just chalk this one up to a little misunderstanding. Black people are no more are less violent than anyone else. To be honest with you "black people" don't really even exist.
Don't worry about the critisism in the next couple of hours everyone will have forgotten this even happened. You're kool peeps and I gots luv for you sister, your heart is in the right place.
Please lower your weapons y'all. Let's turn our attention to Casualcal(jokes, sorta)
D |
LOL, ok Ref.
And may casualcal meant that the CHICK was tall.....
MsBrg722
Jan 12 2006, 10:33 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Jan 12 2006, 10:31 AM) |
DIME, i'm going to assume you're talking from personal experience since you're an international cat killer and remember you saying how when you were you nger you and your girls would rob old folks for their checks at the check cashing spot.
|
This is exactly why YATMFB!!!!!!!!!!!
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:33 AM
| QUOTE (mrdilligaf456 @ Jan 12 2006, 10:29 AM) |
Dime,
We're(me and you) are gonna just chalk this one up to a little misunderstanding. Black people are no more are less violent than anyone else. To be honest with you "black people" don't really even exist.
Don't worry about the critisism in the next couple of hours everyone will have forgotten this even happened. You're kool peeps and I gots luv for you sister, your heart is in the right place.
Please lower your weapons y'all. Let's turn our attention to Casualcal(jokes, sorta)
D |
thanks dill
...im glad u do see that my heart is in the right place...i dont ever wanna hurt or offend anyone here....thats not what im about at all...
Quel
Jan 12 2006, 10:34 AM
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 12 2006, 10:26 AM) |
| QUOTE (Quel @ Jan 12 2006, 10:20 AM) | Just because you apologize does not take away from the fact that you actually believe that bull that your posting.
You can be cool with any and every member on the board, thats the beauty of TC we debate, cyber scrap, and keep on coming back but now at least we clearly see where you stand (fall rather) on certain issues.
But you just go head and enjoy your peacefull day! Ignorance is Bliss...I guess |
that i believe what? that abuse and violence is ignorant? um..yeah i believe that...that it runs in cycles? yes i believe that...y do u continue 2 come at me..i said what i said, i reread it, i realized it was wrong and i apologized..seriously, take it or leave it....
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Peace Offering. Enjoy
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:41 AM
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Jan 12 2006, 10:31 AM) |
DIME, i'm going to assume you're talking from personal experience since you're an international cat killer and remember you saying how when you were you nger you and your girls would rob old folks for their checks at the check cashing spot.
|
acevac
Jan 12 2006, 10:42 AM
I still think she is Lucky Lauren
Quel
Jan 12 2006, 10:48 AM
| QUOTE (acevac @ Jan 12 2006, 10:42 AM) |
I still think she is Lucky Lauren |
This is the creepiest post Ive ever read!!!! I was just thinking the same exact thing.
Hey you get of my cloud
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 10:48 AM
| QUOTE (acevac @ Jan 12 2006, 10:42 AM) |
I still think she is Lucky Lauren |
well im def not..
mrdilligaf456
Jan 12 2006, 10:59 AM
Here's some random thoughts for y'all-
Funkmaster Flex bombed on Ed Lover and 105.1 last night. Dude absolutely destroyed them.
Next thought-
I don't know why but while I was typing a response in another thread(the one about prayer) I had the most hilarious thought-
Could you guys imagine what a prayer from MSBRG would sound like??? How about Bill Cosby communicating with God???
That would be some classic material right there.
D
HoneyBee
Jan 12 2006, 11:05 AM
DETAILS!!
shadesnyc
Jan 12 2006, 11:18 AM
if you don't have stevie wonder's newest album "a time to love" u are out of ur mind. its a classic.
MsBrg722
Jan 12 2006, 11:28 AM
"Dear God above all thank you for the opportunity to see another day and granting me the strength to make it to this point in my life, because there have been so many times I have not wanted to go on. Thank you for opening my heart to know and love myself even through self scrutiny and the judgment of others. Thank you for the family, the shelter, the food. Please forgive me for my sins and grant me to strength to not repeat them. Allow me to be guided by your will and accepting of my shortcomings as well as the shortcomings of others. Bless my family; keep them healthy, strong, and well. Bless my friends, associates, and enemies. Allow my heart to open again so that I may receive you in the way in which you are to be received. Grant me faith and drive, because it is lacking. Surround me with those whom I need surrounding by. Bless the poor, sickly, unable and lost, and help me to remember that I have been, and at any given time can become again one of them. Grant me well being of soul and generosity of spirit. Bless all who need blessing...and although we all must wait to depart on your time I ask for a timely and merciful ending to my Aunt Tassie's life. Thanks for listening...(later dawg)...Amen"
DILL: That’s what I said last night.

In my heart of hearts I think you mean to cause me grief this week. Whatever the reason, I am asking you to please refrain. I'm dealing with a lot of shit right now and your restraint would be greatly appreciated.
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 11:31 AM
| QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Jan 12 2006, 11:28 AM) |
"Dear God above all thank you for the opportunity to see another day and granting me the strength to make it to this point in my life, because there have been so many times I have not wanted to go on. Thank you for opening my heart to know and love myself even through self scrutiny and the judgment of others. Thank you for the family, the shelter, the food. Please forgive me for my sins and grant me to strength to not repeat them. Allow me to be guided by your will and accepting of my shortcomings as well as the shortcomings of others. Bless my family; keep them healthy, strong, and well. Bless my friends, associates, and enemies. Allow my heart to open again so that I may receive you in the way in which you are to be received. Grant me faith and drive, because it is lacking. Surround me with those whom I need surrounding by. Bless the poor, sickly, unable and lost, and help me to remember that I have been, and at any given time can become again one of them. Grant me well being of soul and generosity of spirit. Bless all who need blessing...and although we all must wait to depart on your time I ask for a timely and merciful ending to my Aunt Tassie's life. Thanks for listening...(later dawg)...Amen"
DILL: That’s what I said last night. In my heart of hearts I think you mean to cause me grief this week. Whatever the reason, I am asking you to please refrain. I'm dealing with a lot of shit right now and your restraint would be greatly appreciated. |
*cyber hugs* girl that was deep...im still new 2 the whole prayer thing..bur ur in mine 4 real!
mrdilligaf456
Jan 12 2006, 11:36 AM
| QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Jan 12 2006, 11:28 AM) |
"Dear God above all thank you for the opportunity to see another day and granting me the strength to make it to this point in my life, because there have been so many times I have not wanted to go on. Thank you for opening my heart to know and love myself even through self scrutiny and the judgment of others. Thank you for the family, the shelter, the food. Please forgive me for my sins and grant me to strength to not repeat them. Allow me to be guided by your will and accepting of my shortcomings as well as the shortcomings of others. Bless my family; keep them healthy, strong, and well. Bless my friends, associates, and enemies. Allow my heart to open again so that I may receive you in the way in which you are to be received. Grant me faith and drive, because it is lacking. Surround me with those whom I need surrounding by. Bless the poor, sickly, unable and lost, and help me to remember that I have been, and at any given time can become again one of them. Grant me well being of soul and generosity of spirit. Bless all who need blessing...and although we all must wait to depart on your time I ask for a timely and merciful ending to my Aunt Tassie's life. Thanks for listening...(later dawg)...Amen"
DILL: That’s what I said last night. In my heart of hearts I think you mean to cause me grief this week. Whatever the reason, I am asking you to please refrain. I'm dealing with a lot of shit right now and your restraint would be greatly appreciated. |
Sorry BRG I should know better than to make fun of someone's religious beliefs. As I have made abundantly clear on numerous occasions I can be a real asshole sometimes. Love is love though and I wish you and yours all the best during this difficult time.
Be well.
D
brooklynchicalette2
Jan 12 2006, 11:39 AM
| QUOTE |
| do you not get to know people before you fuck them? i do, so i can say with pretty strong certainty that issue will be discussed at some point. it comes up alot with my background. |

thats was callous..
Dime, we cyber cool- be easy on your assessments please.
As for the ass whoppins. People lets not get stuck on semantics. You parents did NOT abuse you (or maybe they did)
I for sure was not abused. I was CHECKED.
For every black kid that you deem 'violent' there is a "timeout" recepient fucking his/her momma up and doing drugs at 14. For every black kid you deem 'violent' there is another "timeout" recepient that is slitting his/her wrists because they did not feel the love when they received a beamer instead of a jag for 18 bday.
So, to all my new age parents... NUFF respect. But please don't act like you don't know the difference between
ass whoppin and abuse.
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 11:49 AM
| QUOTE (brooklynchicalette2 @ Jan 12 2006, 11:39 AM) |
| QUOTE | | do you not get to know people before you fuck them? i do, so i can say with pretty strong certainty that issue will be discussed at some point. it comes up alot with my background. |
 thats was callous.. Dime, we cyber cool- be easy on your assessments please. As for the ass whoppins. People lets not get stuck on semantics. You parents did NOT abuse you (or maybe they did) I for sure was not abused. I was CHECKED. For every black kid that you deem 'violent' there is a "timeout" recepient fucking his/her momma up and doing drugs at 14. For every black kid you deem 'violent' there is another "timeout" recepient that is slitting his/her wrists because they did not feel the love when they received a beamer instead of a jag for 18 bday. So, to all my new age parents... NUFF respect. But please don't act like you don't know the difference between ass whoppin and abuse. |
BK...what u said was true so very true...but there is a thin line between ass whuppin and abuse...i was abused, point blank and i dont want that cycle 2 continue in my home...and yes i will be more careful with my assessments in the future...
ELOCIN
Jan 12 2006, 12:55 PM
I'm stuffed!!!

Who the hell over eats a salad. A SALAD.
I really need to watch my portions....that's going to be next weeks focus. Portion control!
Chi QT
Jan 12 2006, 01:07 PM
Why do I feel noxious after drinking water in the morning
MsBrg722
Jan 12 2006, 01:57 PM
Have you ever noticed whenever you finally get a grip on life...like you've finally got your footing...EVERBODY elses life turns to shit.

I mean EVERYONE close to me is going through some damn drama. Separations, problems at work, trifling/alcoholic/dumbass signifs, car problems, money problems etc. I have internalized their problems and made them my own to the point where I am not even sleeping well at night.
Is it selfish that I don't want to become emotionally involved in my people's problems right now? I feel like they are stealing my peace...and I just can't let that happen. I'm about to cut them ALL off for at least a month.

Is that trife?
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 02:03 PM
im so dumb when it comes 2 technology...y the hell is my sig so damn big...grrr
tarheelnny
Jan 12 2006, 02:05 PM
| QUOTE |
Have you ever noticed whenever you finally get a grip on life...like you've finally got your footing...EVERBODY elses life turns to shit. I mean EVERYONE close to me is going through some damn drama. Separations, problems at work, trifling/alcoholic/dumbass signifs, car problems, money problems etc. I have internalized their problems and made them my own to the point where I am not even sleeping well at night.
Is it selfish that I don't want to become emotionally involved in my people's problems right now? I feel like they are stealing my peace...and I just can't let that happen. I'm about to cut them ALL off for at least a month. Is that trife? |
it's all a test babe. Take it all in stride if you can.
There is nothing wrong with taking time FOR and BY YOURSELF....
It's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. We all have had or will have Rough patches in our life that just leave you speechless ..and it can ALL POUR DOWN RAINING at once.
God will not give you anything u can't handle.
tarheelnny
Jan 12 2006, 02:06 PM
cute kid Dime..is that your little one?
ELOCIN
Jan 12 2006, 02:10 PM
| QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Jan 12 2006, 01:57 PM) |
Have you ever noticed whenever you finally get a grip on life...like you've finally got your footing...EVERBODY elses life turns to shit. I mean EVERYONE close to me is going through some damn drama. Separations, problems at work, trifling/alcoholic/dumbass signifs, car problems, money problems etc. I have internalized their problems and made them my own to the point where I am not even sleeping well at night.
Is it selfish that I don't want to become emotionally involved in my people's problems right now? I feel like they are stealing my peace...and I just can't let that happen. I'm about to cut them ALL off for at least a month. Is that trife? |
Nope. It's necessary.
I have too much on my plate to deal with everyone elses stuff.. No one can blame you for taking care of yourself first and foremost!
dimendaruff
Jan 12 2006, 02:22 PM
| QUOTE (tarheelnny @ Jan 12 2006, 02:06 PM) |
| cute kid Dime..is that your little one? |
yeah thats my lil man...i tried and tried 2 make it smaller but im really dumb
....if its 2 big and annoying ya'll lemme know, i'll delete it...
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