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| QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Jan 11 2006, 10:38 AM) |
| The nurse said she doesn't think my Aunt will make it til Friday. I am glad, because she was really bad this week. What I don't understand is why, if I am glad (I really am), do I keep having to fight down tears? I let her listen to India on my ipod yesterday, which she enjoyed. I looked at her straining to bob her head to the music. She has no kids, all her siblings passed (she's my great aunt), and her husband died over almost 30 years ago. She is a real trooper, inviting death to take her away, impatiently telling us "I never thought it would take this long". Yesterday as I sat and watched her trying so hard to remain in good spirits, I wondered about what really matters. What I came up with? Nothing much. I feel so humbled.  And I miss my ex.   |
awww girl...*cyber hug*
| QUOTE (MsBrg722 @ Jan 11 2006, 10:38 AM) |
| The nurse said she doesn't think my Aunt will make it til Friday. I am glad, because she was really bad this week. What I don't understand is why, if I am glad (I really am), do I keep having to fight down tears? I let her listen to India on my ipod yesterday, which she enjoyed. I looked at her straining to bob her head to the music. She has no kids, all her siblings passed (she's my great aunt), and her husband died over almost 30 years ago. She is a real trooper, inviting death to take her away, impatiently telling us "I never thought it would take this long". Yesterday as I sat and watched her trying so hard to remain in good spirits, I wondered about what really matters. What I came up with? Nothing much. I feel so humbled. And I miss my ex. |
sorry to hear that. don't worry about why you feel the way you feel, it's undertsandable. for the moment, just feel and enjoy the time that you have left together.
life is very humbling.
*giving another cyber hug*
| QUOTE (acevac @ Jan 10 2006, 03:34 PM) |
ya'll need Jesus....  |
WORD!!!!
Maybe it's a womanly bonding thing, but men don't do no shit like that. Or at least dudes I know with their fathers.
I never heard of no convo's "Boy ya momma put on me last night...."
I would proceed to slap the snot out of my pops and then stomp on his bad knee till he couldn't walk anymore.
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Jan 11 2006, 10:46 AM) | ||
WORD!!!! Maybe it's a womanly bonding thing, but men don't do no shit like that. Or at least dudes I know with their fathers. I never heard of no convo's "Boy ya momma put on me last night...." I would proceed to slap the snot out of my pops and then stomp on his bad knee till he couldn't walk anymore. |
u so silly!
Thanks DIMEand SCRIBE...
Thanks RWC...
A hooker, a midget and a nun walked into a bar...
PS The message wasn't for you.
Thanks RWC...
A hooker, a midget and a nun walked into a bar...PS The message wasn't for you.
| QUOTE (770 @ Jan 11 2006, 09:52 AM) | ||||||
Did you see the MTV Making the Video for this one? Okay basically the concept was sposed to be that Kanye is a homeless dad that used to be a businessman and at night the Macy's night watchman (Adam Levine) lets the family sneak in and sleep in the department store. Why the furniture and everything moves around I'm not sure but I'm with Deka -- there was no Gondry/West chemistry. |
deks - i actually liked both jesus walks videos. don't think they were horrible.
this one is the worst. it makes no sense why inademate objects are dancing around the store.
i hate videos that don't conicide with the song.
I GOT THE JOB!!!! 
| QUOTE (socialb77 @ Jan 11 2006, 11:00 AM) |
| I GOT THE JOB!!!! |
YES!!!! CONGRATS SOC!!!
That's what i'm talking about; put your mind to something and when it comes your way you grab it and make the most.....what job???
| QUOTE (socialb77 @ Jan 11 2006, 11:00 AM) |
| I GOT THE JOB!!!! |
woo hoo!
and what job would that be? didn't know u were looking.
| QUOTE (socialb77 @ Jan 11 2006, 11:00 AM) |
| I GOT THE JOB!!!! |
Congrats!!
Thanks for the well wishes guys....I am truly happy and blessed that my new year is starting off with a BANG!! I will be moving on to work for the president of one of the largest labor unions on the East Coast.
| QUOTE (socialb77 @ Jan 11 2006, 11:08 AM) |
| Thanks for the well wishes guys....I am truly happy and blessed that my new year is starting off with a BANG!! I will be moving on to work for the president of one of the largest labor unions on the East Coast. |
wow...thats great news girl...congrats 4 real!
Guess some people think flirting online and right in your face is where the line is drawn. (?) I dont know it is 2006
ok, Tony Blair (British PM) admitted to 'smacking' his kids, the older ones but not the youngest who's 5.
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| After his admission, British campaigners against smacking renewed calls Wednesday for children to be protected against all forms of physical discipline. Mary Crowley, chief executive of the Parenting Education and Support Forum, said that children should receive exactly the same protection from the law as adults. "The law should protect children, there should be the same protection as adults protected by the law of assault, so that if things got bad, they can actually have recourse to justice," she told BBC Breakfast TV. Jack O'Sullivan, co-founder of the group Fathers Direct, and author of the guide "He's Having a Baby," told PA smacking was "dying out" as a means of disciplining children. An amendment to the Children Bill outlawing the "hitting" of youngsters was rejected in the House of Commons in November 2004. The bill instead allowed mild smacking while barring any physical punishment which caused visible bruising. |
| QUOTE (Quel @ Jan 11 2006, 11:16 AM) |
| Guess some people think flirting online and right in your face is where the line is drawn. (?) I dont know it is 2006 |
Pet Peeve of mine...you gotta watch those man that stay on the net
sneaky... 
children should not be hit. period. snatch em up, shake em around if need be, but no hitting. it is damaging to their self esteem.
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Jan 11 2006, 12:20 PM) |
| children should not be hit. period. snatch em up, shake em around if need be, but no hitting. it is damaging to their self esteem. |
co-sign times 100000000000000
shakin is risky depending on the age...can cause brain damage...
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 11 2006, 12:23 PM) | ||
co-sign times 100000000000000 shakin is risky depending on the age...can cause brain damage... |
to both of you guys....but that's a whole nother thread....
| QUOTE |
| children should not be hit. period. snatch em up, shake em around if need be, but no hitting. it is damaging to their self esteem. |
ahhh here we go again
I was smacked like 1,001 times because I was a busy body and a back talker..I have GREAT self esteem...and so does my brother, my sis-in-law, over half of my cousins, my best friend,...the list goes on and on..
and you best believe..WE ALL got a fair share of beatings/spankings with belts, switches...
it varies for each kid...
for kids that dont' know boundaries and THINK that talking to their PARENTS like they are hoodlums off the street..NEED TO BE smacked a few times....
I don't play that...my future kids will get physically disciplined if NEED BE...best believe.
| QUOTE (tarheelnny @ Jan 11 2006, 12:30 PM) | ||
ahhh here we go again I was smacked like 1,001 times because I was a busy body and a back talker..I have GREAT self esteem...and so does my brother, my sis-in-law, over half of my cousins, my best friend,...the list goes on and on.. and you best believe..WE ALL got a fair share of beatings/spankings with belts, switches... it varies for each kid... for kids that dont' know boundaries and THINK that talking to their PARENTS like they are hoodlums off the street..NEED TO BE smacked a few times.... I don't play that...my future kids will get physically disciplined if NEED BE...best believe. |
with my son, i cant say ive never hit him...i can count on one hand the times that i have "plucked his hand" and that was ONLY because he was doing something 2 endanger himself, not bcuz i was pissed at his behavior...
| QUOTE (miss_lady26 @ Jan 11 2006, 12:25 PM) | ||||
to both of you guys....but that's a whole nother thread.... |
yup they get the
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Jan 11 2006, 12:20 PM) |
| children should not be hit. period. snatch em up, shake em around if need be, but no hitting. it is damaging to their self esteem. |
You must have been raised on some reservation in Utah and been raised on the 'Time Out' method Scribe.
Just like my parents and their parents before them, and so on and so on, I am going to follow the sacred time honored tradition of beating my childrens asses when need be.
And I am definitely about tradition.
You betta stomp the shit outta your kids. Keep doing that dum timeout mess. My self esteeem is just right and ole girl used to wail on a sista. And she would still try it if she could.
Fuk outta here-- body slam the fukas if they don't act right.
Fuk outta here-- body slam the fukas if they don't act right.
| QUOTE (brooklynchicalette2 @ Jan 11 2006, 12:52 PM) |
| You betta stomp the shit outta your kids. Keep doing that dum timeout mess. My self esteeem is just right and ole girl used to wail on a sista. And she would still try it if she could. Fuk outta here-- body slam the fukas if they don't act right. |
LOL@ Body Slam....
| QUOTE (brooklynchicalette2 @ Jan 11 2006, 12:52 PM) |
| You betta stomp the shit outta your kids. Keep doing that dum timeout mess. My self esteeem is just right and ole girl used to wail on a sista. And she would still try it if she could. Fuk outta here-- body slam the fukas if they don't act right. |
WORD!!!!
I got suspended in 11th grade for fighting and my mother punched me in the face with two straight lefts and I think I came out ok.
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Jan 11 2006, 12:51 PM) | ||
You must have been raised on some reservation in Utah and been raised on the 'Time Out' method Scribe. Just like my parents and their parents before them, and so on and so on, I am going to follow the sacred time honored tradition of beating my childrens asses when need be. And I am definitely about tradition. |
my father beat the shit out of me growing up. i will not do that to MY kids. do what you please with yours.
| QUOTE |
| You betta stomp the shit outta your kids. Keep doing that dum timeout mess. My self esteeem is just right and ole girl used to wail on a sista. And she would still try it if she could. Fuk outta here-- body slam the fukas if they don't act right. |
OH..I CAn'T BREATHE!!!!! funniest post of the year so far...oh LAWD....girl, I'm sure if I said something foul to my parents right now. at the age of 27...the only thing that would save me from them not hitting me is my lightening fast feet.
other than that...mom dukes and MY POPS who is my friggin' ACE don't play that...they will tell me to pick up my teeth if need be!!
nah, but seriously...there is a different b/t spanking and BEATING/FIGHITNG your kids....
if u don't know the difference then seek help.
but I believe 85-990% of kids need physical discipline..all that other crap like time out, sitting in teh corner, talking away thigns...work like 10% of the time....
THE THOUGHT of FEARING my parents for a split second....is enough to make my ass straighten up and FLY RIGHT!
SCRIBE, I'm sorry to hear that your dad got at you hard like that. My father did too, but maybe not like in a HORRIBLE way. I guess...to each is his/her own. Nobody knows your experience but you.
You seem like a cool/confident person despite what happened in the past.
| QUOTE (RoyaleWithCheese @ Jan 11 2006, 12:56 PM) | ||
WORD!!!! I got suspended in 11th grade for fighting and my mother punched me in the face with two straight lefts and I think I came out ok. |
See, that's what I'm talking about.
God forbid my son even THINK he wants to raise his hand to me.....cause WE GON TEAR SOME SHIT UP WHEREVER we happen to be at.
| QUOTE (tarheelnny @ Jan 11 2006, 01:03 PM) |
| but I believe 85-990% of kids need physical discipline..all that other crap like time out, sitting in teh corner, talking away thigns...work like 10% of the time.... THE THOUGHT of FEARING my parents for a split second....is enough to make my ass straighten up and FLY RIGHT! |
My 4 year old nephew (at the time) was told he couldn't do something (I forget what it was) and he hauls off and slaps his mom......do you know the only thing she said to him was "Now baby was that nice??"
....all this from the school of no whoopin, not even a pop on the hand.
2006~ 7 yr old being chased in a car by cops
2006 ~ lil black kids (yes BLACK) giving parents lip service (AND in public)
2006~ lil black kids (yes BLACK) at a restauratn climbing over people banging shit all over the damn place..
2006~ parents just saying - Madison, mommy says stop.
JUST PINCH THEM REAL HARD.. pinch em.
What is this world coming to. But Scribe is right- do whats works for you. Cause I will do what works for me..
My moms gave me an explanation EVERYTIME she busted my ass- She just did it while she was jacking me up. Sometimes it was just- you know why you getting this - don't act stupid.
She still throws that 'look' at times, and I just go- nuh uh lady. But reflex and impulse say-- move back.
aaaghh the days when ass whoppins was popular. All your friends felt bad for you cause they know they would be next.
2006 ~ lil black kids (yes BLACK) giving parents lip service (AND in public)
2006~ lil black kids (yes BLACK) at a restauratn climbing over people banging shit all over the damn place..
2006~ parents just saying - Madison, mommy says stop.
JUST PINCH THEM REAL HARD.. pinch em.
What is this world coming to. But Scribe is right- do whats works for you. Cause I will do what works for me..
My moms gave me an explanation EVERYTIME she busted my ass- She just did it while she was jacking me up. Sometimes it was just- you know why you getting this - don't act stupid.
She still throws that 'look' at times, and I just go- nuh uh lady. But reflex and impulse say-- move back.
aaaghh the days when ass whoppins was popular. All your friends felt bad for you cause they know they would be next.
| QUOTE (miss_lady26 @ Jan 11 2006, 01:17 PM) | ||
My 4 year old nephew (at the time) was told he couldn't do something (I forget what it was) and he hauls off and slaps his mom......do you know the only thing she said to him was "Now baby was that nice??" ....all this from the school of no whoopin, not even a pop on the hand. |
i wish my goddaughters would...
unfortunately, the youngest one has no fear. she can get popped for being bad and look at u with this stare of "i will fuck u up" - but put her ass in the corner. JEEZ she will cry her head off that she hates.
I used to babysit the twins of a rich lawyer couple in the west village... family was loaded, kids used to order 50 dollar meals for dinner and throw away the leftovers... one day the son (little fat bastard 
) has the nerves to kick me because I told him to clean up... man my instincts kicked in and i smacked that boy so hard... he started crying, "My nanny isn't even allowed to hit me."
I was like, "SO?"
I'll be damned if I have some bratty ass children. Hell to the naw.
) has the nerves to kick me because I told him to clean up... man my instincts kicked in and i smacked that boy so hard... he started crying, "My nanny isn't even allowed to hit me."I was like, "SO?"
I'll be damned if I have some bratty ass children. Hell to the naw.
| QUOTE (770 @ Jan 11 2006, 01:31 PM) |
| I used to babysit the twins of a rich lawyer couple in the west village... family was loaded, kids used to order 50 dollar meals for dinner and throw away the leftovers... one day the son (little fat bastard ) has the nerves to kick me because I told him to clean up... man my instincts kicked in and i smacked that boy so hard... he started crying, "My nanny isn't even allowed to hit me." I was like, "SO?" I'll be damned if I have some bratty ass children. Hell to the naw. |
OMG!
i'm not saying no discipline whatsoever. i don't want them to obnoxious. but i think it's possible to raise respectable, well-behaved kids without beating them. it's worth a try. even after all the beatings, there are plenty of kids who are still fuck ups. it doesn't always work.
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Jan 11 2006, 01:33 PM) | ||
OMG! i'm not saying no discipline whatsoever. i don't want them to obnoxious. but i think it's possible to raise respectable, well-behaved kids without beating them. it's worth a try. even after all the beatings, there are plenty of kids who are still fuck ups. it doesn't always work. |
well said...were totally in agreement on this one scribe...i work with kids everyday and i see the products of kids that get "their asses beat"...its not cool..but once again, 2 each its own..
770 ur story is hilarious
| QUOTE |
| OMG! i'm not saying no discipline whatsoever. i don't want them to obnoxious. but i think it's possible to raise respectable, well-behaved kids without beating them. it's worth a try. even after all the beatings, there are plenty of kids who are still fuck ups. it doesn't always work. |
SCRIBE...fuck ups exist b/c parents didn't do it right...you have to ration out the beatings with some hard core talks and sometimes THREATS..yes THREATS..AND AND AND...STICK BY THEM (that is the most important thing...sticking with your word)..
not beating the kid and turn around and let him/her go out with friends..
WTF is that about...
ooooooooooohhhh weee...ALSO, I don't think I could marry someone who had different disciplinary morals than I do. oh no.
| QUOTE (tarheelnny @ Jan 11 2006, 02:00 PM) |
| I don't think I could marry someone who had different disciplinary morals than I do. oh no. |
c/S
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Jan 11 2006, 02:33 PM) | ||
c/S |
I'm sorry, but I have to ask y'all this. Before you have sex with someone do you ask them about their disciplinary morals?
Just curious
| QUOTE (770 @ Jan 11 2006, 02:40 PM) | ||||
I'm sorry, but I have to ask y'all this. Before you have sex with someone do you ask them about their disciplinary morals? Just curious |
| QUOTE (770 @ Jan 11 2006, 02:40 PM) | ||||
I'm sorry, but I have to ask y'all this. Before you have sex with someone do you ask them about their disciplinary morals? Just curious |
i don't plan to marry everyone i fuck. two entirely different things.
| QUOTE (BKLYNScribe @ Jan 11 2006, 02:47 PM) | ||||||
i don't plan to marry everyone i fuck. two entirely different things. |
True, however fucking opens up the possibility of having children which require moral disciplining...
just something to think about next time you get ready to get down
| QUOTE |
| i don't plan to marry everyone i fuck. two entirely different things. |
very true.
however, folks that "slip up" end up with unplanned pregnancies....that 1% of condoms not working is very seldom.
if u want a kid...you will have one b/c u WANT to...or b/c u are not being responsible. plain and simple.
| QUOTE (tarheelnny @ Jan 11 2006, 04:21 PM) | ||
very true. however, folks that "slip up" end up with unplanned pregnancies....that 1% of condoms not working is very seldom. if u want a kid...you will have one b/c u WANT to...or b/c u are not being responsible. plain and simple. |
1%
| QUOTE |
| 1% |
lol
hell, I don't know the EXACT percentage VERBATIM...but it's relatively in the single digit percent of condoms not working if used properly...lol
| QUOTE (770 @ Jan 11 2006, 01:31 PM) |
| I used to babysit the twins of a rich lawyer couple in the west village... family was loaded, kids used to order 50 dollar meals for dinner and throw away the leftovers... one day the son (little fat bastard ) has the nerves to kick me because I told him to clean up... man my instincts kicked in and i smacked that boy so hard... he started crying, "My nanny isn't even allowed to hit me." I was like, "SO?" I'll be damned if I have some bratty ass children. Hell to the naw. |
| QUOTE (dimendaruff @ Jan 11 2006, 01:55 PM) | ||||
well said...were totally in agreement on this one scribe...i work with kids everyday and i see the products of kids that get "their asses beat"...its not cool..but once again, 2 each its own.. |
what kind of discipline is "time out?" fuck that...that shit don't work.
I remember one time I was on the bus and this white lady was on it. when her child started acting out, it was all black people on the bus except for her. She kept telling him, "stop that Timmy or you're going to have a time out.." Of course, Timmy is cursing his momma out and telling her that he hates her.
Lucky for her, she was on the bus with West Indians. After we got tired of giving this lady looks, an old WI woman (Jamaican, at that) tells her to "beat that little boy's bloodclot...a mi can't stand unruly children." She acted like she didn't hear it. Timmy is still acting stupid and no matter what Mommy does, he gets worse. Finally, a man says to him, "likkle bwoy, if you don't stop disrespecting your mother in front of we, a ME gwan beat your backside so bad, you will see your bones when you look in the mirror...a me don't care wha uh do when you get off de bus but don't you dare disrespect your mother in front of we...me ain't care about BCS or who dem deh...watch."
Timmy looked around and of course, everyone was looking at him like, "damn right." Timmy was quiet until he got off the bus.
BTW, I told him that if the man doesn't beat his ass, then I will. And you know how WI people do...they started talking about the woman and her lack of discipline skills right in her face...it's not like she understood them anyway.
Moral of the story...it's nice to want to be nice to kids and not beat them...but when all else fails...WAX THAT ASS!!
| QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Jan 11 2006, 05:18 PM) |
| Moral of the story...it's nice to want to be nice to kids and not beat them...but when all else fails...WAX THAT ASS!! |
Ass Waxed should be my middle name
| QUOTE (SeeLaH @ Jan 11 2006, 05:18 PM) | ||||||
what kind of discipline is "time out?" fuck that...that shit don't work. I remember one time I was on the bus and this white lady was on it. when her child started acting out, it was all black people on the bus except for her. She kept telling him, "stop that Timmy or you're going to have a time out.." Of course, Timmy is cursing his momma out and telling her that he hates her. Lucky for her, she was on the bus with West Indians. After we got tired of giving this lady looks, an old WI woman (Jamaican, at that) tells her to "beat that little boy's bloodclot...a mi can't stand unruly children." She acted like she didn't hear it. Timmy is still acting stupid and no matter what Mommy does, he gets worse. Finally, a man says to him, "likkle bwoy, if you don't stop disrespecting your mother in front of we, a ME gwan beat your backside so bad, you will see your bones when you look in the mirror...a me don't care wha uh do when you get off de bus but don't you dare disrespect your mother in front of we...me ain't care about BCS or who dem deh...watch." Timmy looked around and of course, everyone was looking at him like, "damn right." Timmy was quiet until he got off the bus. BTW, I told him that if the man doesn't beat his ass, then I will. And you know how WI people do...they started talking about the woman and her lack of discipline skills right in her face...it's not like she understood them anyway. Moral of the story...it's nice to want to be nice to kids and not beat them...but when all else fails...WAX THAT ASS!! |
ok...thats the thing, its not that "time out" doesnt work, its all on how its applied...if ur child is acting like that towards u, ur doing something wrong period...my son is 2 and he tries me all the time: "no leave me alone", should i whip his ass? no, i take away all his lil cars and put his ass in time out 4 two min, i then let him know why he is in time out, and make sure he apologizes and i give him a hug and a kiss so he knows this doesnt mean mommy doesnt love u, but i dislike ur behavior..he straightens up after the 2 min...4 right now this is what works 4 me, best believe no child that i was in labor with for 12 hours, pushing for 3 will disrespect me when hes old enough 2 know better, but i cant say that i would beat his ass...i will cross that bridge when i come 2 it...and 4 all of u that dont have kids yet and ur commenting, trust ur views may change when u have a child..i said a lot of shit b4 i had my lil munchkin...
side note: white ppl arent the only ones that do time out, and black/spanish people arent the only ones who believe in "beatin that ass"...it isnt a race thing
I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection.
| QUOTE (ELOCIN @ Jan 11 2006, 05:54 PM) |
| I fully believe is whupping up on your child if necessary...but I also look at how agressive black people are and I wonder if there is a connection. |
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